Success! We are both getting Kitely merch now. All set. Thanks again for your patience Ilan. Really appreciate your help. Just something for you to tuck away..Might be handy. It looks like my issue was with my ASUS RT-AC5300 router. Everything came up and ran once I built seperate forwarding paths f...

I'll keep looking at this until I find the firewall and/or router issue, which appears to come and go by itself.

Then will get back to you.

Yes...Thanks. I understand why you say that.

What flips me out is that everything was working yesterday. Bidirectional IM, bidirectional TPs for AVs on several grids. Somehow I broke this without knowing what I did..Just a few restarts, but no router or server config changes. Frustrating.

No. Kitely Gruden Darwin gets logged off when I try to HG him to Alarialand. Two attempts, one via friend TP, another via world map.

Sorry. I also tried an AV from Digiworld to Alarialand, and it failed as well. That worked yesterday. No changes other than a server reboot.

OK...

I have Alarialand JP Susa in Alarialand successfully IMing Kitely Gruden Darwin in Kitely.

I fail on Kitely Gruden Darwin in Kitely IM to Alarialand JP Susa in Alarialand.
(busy response): Unable to send instant message. User is not logged in.

Yeah, I have no Kitely AV yet...

Yes!

Got my notecard!!!!!

I didn't have a grid reference to remove.

Still getting :

We couldn't send a notecard to JP Susa @ Alarialand. Make sure that the avatar is online and in its home grid. Also, make sure that the grid is open to the Hypergrid, and its firewall allows access from the outside.

I didn not. Should it be commented out?

Done - JP Susa