The stated goals of the guidelines is to minimize drama and libel-liability (which can exist in various European countries) while keeping the forum open for free expression. You can express negative feelings about Kitely but attacking other people and grids can cross a line that may cause you or Kitely to be sued for libel by the offended party. That is not a danger that usually exists in the states, with its various free speech protections, but it is very real in European countries where libel suits can often be won without having to show actual damages.
This issue, like many others, was announced in the meeting agenda ahead of time and was brought to the forums after people started discussing it in the weekly Kitely Mentors Group meeting. Nothing was done behind anyones back and we're not excluding anyone from participating in the discussion. In fact, we're discussing it now
The problem isn't with negativity it's with outright attacking people in ways that can be considered defamation. People can completely disagree with things, be very outspoken about it and still remain civil in their conduct. The fact that we're all adults doesn't mean we need to argue like children. We can state everything that is bothering us and be VERY detailed about it without attacking people personally. If Kitely does something you don't like then please tell us about it in the forums and convince us to change our ways. However, the shortcomings of other grids and people can best be discussed in those grid's forums or in various other third-party sites. The Internet is not lacking for places to discuss whatever you want in whatever way you want. I think we should aim to keep the Kitely forums hospitable and related to Kitely.
Other than casual off-topic discussions, which are usually okay if they don't derail the thread, the place in the forums for non-Kitely related issues is the General Discussion section of the forums. Personally I have no problem with people discussing politics or religion there but I do have a problem if those conversations become the ground for personal attacks, insults, or slanderous language - those things can get both you and Kitely into trouble with third parties and should therefore be avoided. If you can't discuss these sensitive subjects in that section without it degenerating to mud throwing (which is, unfortunately, the expected outcome in most such discussions) then please find another website to discuss them and help keep Kitely a friendly and welcoming forum for civil discussion.
